Shirley Lee Cross
September 5, 1934- January 27, 2021

Shirley Lee Cross of Kettering, Maryland and formerly of Knoxville, Iowa passed away on Wednesday, January 27, 2021. Shirley worked as the school nurse at Largo Sr. High, and as an administrative assistant for AETNA and OPM for many years. She was a talented crocheter creating the most beautiful pieces for family and friends and was a master cruciverbalist. She also enjoyed cheering on the Nats and several colligate sports teams.
Shirley was preceded in death by her husband of more than 50 years, Seward Cross; her parents Willard and Leona Proffitt of Knoxville, Iowa; Jean Courtney of Pleasantville, Iowa; and Rodney Proffitt of Burlington, Washington. She is survived by her son Kevin (Susan), five grandchildren Brian, Matthew (Chelsea), Sydney, Shelby, and Scott Cross as well as one great-grandson Avery.
A private service and burial will be held for the family. The family asks that in lieu of condolences, tell your family members you love them.
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Dear Kevin, Susan and family.
I just wanted to say that aunt Shirley was such a sweet and beautiful spirit.
I always thought she was so beautiful and she made such gorgeous sweaters, jewelry and the absolute best banana nut bread I had ever had! I loved visiting with her and just thought she was precious.
Our condolences go out to you all.
Losing a parent or grandparent is never easy.
May Gods peace be with you all during this time.
Love Always,
Tammy Crogan(Cross)
Kevin,
I am so sorry that you’ve lost aunt Shirley:-(
I hate I haven’t seen her in so long. I miss that family time we used to have. I hope you made a lot of memories! I will be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Love you. Lisa
Kevin,
Our sincerest condolences and prayers go out to you and your family for your loss. I pray you all find the peace and strength of the Lord and receive comfort in your hearts where the memories remain. We love you all.
David and Kristine Cross
Dear Kevin,
We are sending our love and prayers for you and your family during this time of loss of your precious mother. Shirley was the absolute best sister-in-law a person could have. She was always so kind and accepting to me and your cousins. There are so many wonderful memories that I have and hold dear. I hope you know that you are surrounded by my family’s love and prayers for you.
Blessings,
Aunt Carol
Dear Kevin and Family, I can’t say any any better than our families previous comments and condolences. Just know that we all made memories with Aunt Shirley Uncle Seward and you. Boy, did we have fun when you all came to Iowa to visit. I still have the crochet items she made for my boys. Love you and will keep you in my prayers.
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Kevin and family,
Sending prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
Debra
My deepest sympathies to Kevin, Susan, and the entire Cross family. My family and I loved Nana very much and she will always be a member of my extended family. Rest in Peace Nana. With Love, Karen Jackson and family
Dear Kevin and family, we hold you all up in Prayer during this difficult time. Just know we love you and are praying for you.
Love you Cousin!
Shelly Jacobi and family
Dear Kevin, Susan and family.
I just wanted to say that aunt Shirley was such a sweet and beautiful spirit.
I always thought she was so beautiful and she made such gorgeous sweaters, jewelry and the absolute best banana nut bread I had ever had! I loved visiting with her and just thought she was precious.
Our condolences go out to you all.
Losing a parent or grandparent is never easy.
May Gods peace be with you all during this time.
Love Always,
Tammy Crogan(Cross)
Kevin,
I am so sorry that you’ve lost aunt Shirley:-(
I hate I haven’t seen her in so long. I miss that family time we used to have. I hope you made a lot of memories! I will be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Love you. Lisa
Kevin,
Our sincerest condolences and prayers go out to you and your family for your loss. I pray you all find the peace and strength of the Lord and receive comfort in your hearts where the memories remain. We love you all.
David and Kristine Cross
Dear Kevin,
We are sending our love and prayers for you and your family during this time of loss of your precious mother. Shirley was the absolute best sister-in-law a person could have. She was always so kind and accepting to me and your cousins. There are so many wonderful memories that I have and hold dear. I hope you know that you are surrounded by my family’s love and prayers for you.
Blessings,
Aunt Carol
Dear Kevin and Family, I can’t say any any better than our families previous comments and condolences. Just know that we all made memories with Aunt Shirley Uncle Seward and you. Boy, did we have fun when you all came to Iowa to visit. I still have the crochet items she made for my boys. Love you and will keep you in my prayers.