Rodney Gilbert Duley, Sr.
August 28, 1934- August 8, 2021

Rodney Gilbert Duley, Sr., 86, of Upper Marlboro passed away August 8, 2021. He was born August 28, 1934 to Ellis George and Helen Irene (Edelen) Duley. Rodney was born and raised in the house his father built on Rosaryville Road in Upper Marlboro. He graduated from Gwynn Park High School. He joined the United States Air Force in 1953 and retired on December 31, 1989 as Chief Master Sergeant. Rodney married Sandra Hardesty on August 31, 1984 and they lived in the same house Rodney grew up in on Rosaryville Road. He attended Cheltenham United Methodist Church where he enjoyed attending church functions and luncheons. In his spare time, he enjoyed yard sales, antiquing, hunting, fishing, visiting the Amish, gardening, riding his father’s tractor, and feeding wildlife, especially his favorite squirrel Chippy who he fed peanuts to regularly. Rodney was a very giving person, who was always willing to share and help even in his final days. He would often visit the Amish and take the children ice cream and gifts at Christmas and even took a turkey for the families at Thanksgiving. While at yard sales, Rodney would buy things he didn’t need, but because “someone might need it”. Most of all Rodney loved his family and spending time with his grandchildren. Whenever they need to make a decision, they will always think “what would Pop-Pop do”. Rodney will be greatly missed.
Rodney is survived by his wife Sandra Lee “Sandy” Duley of Upper Marlboro, children Rodney G. “Roddy” Duley, Jr. of New Market, Dennis Paul Duley and his wife Janice of Easton, Timothy Michael Duley and his wife Julie of Prince Frederick, Teresa Ann Marshall and her husband Darrell of Lothian, and Chrissy Marie Hillegas and her husband Danny of Lusby, fourteen grandchildren, one great-grandson and sister Jackie Modlin Jones of Upper Marlboro. He was preceded in death by his siblings Gwendolyn Waldron, Townshend Duley, Robert “Reds” Duley, Audrey Duley DeMarr, Genevieve Duley Jowett, and Ellis “Chunky” Duley Jr. and daughter in law Trisha Duley.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Rodney’s name may be made to Cheltenham United Methodist Church or the Dementia Society of America at the address and links below.
Visitation
Services
- Funeral Service
Monday, August 16, 2021
12 Noon
Interment
- Burial
Contributions
Cheltenham United Methodist Church
11111 Crain Highway
PO Box 146
Cheltenham, MD 20623
Dementia Society of America
PO Box 600
Doylestown, PA 18901
800-336-3684
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Rod, I am so sorry for your loss. We have all had too many tragedies in the past couple of years. But we have strength in our families pulling together to hold each other up. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Uncle Buddy was an long time icon in the Rosaryville/Upper Marlboro area. So many knew him, loved him, and have shared very sweet memories of him. A special man, uncle, blood, part of my heart, who was so loved and will be dearly missed. I can see him reunited with his parents and siblings who have entered heaven’s gate before him.
Chief Duly was always a straight up tell it like it is type of guy. He and the other senior leaders of the 113th Supply took me under their wings and truly made me feel welcome and a part of 113th Supply, DC Air National Guard. Rest In Paradise Chief Duly. You will truly be missed by your family and those who had the honor and pleasure of working with you and for you as a part of the DC Air National Guard.
Yvonne D. Miller, Major, Retired, DCANG
Yvonne,
My heart was soooo warmed to read your condolence for our beloved Rodney.
I met Rodney when I was a mere 17 years old, dating his middle son, Dennis. I wasn’t sure how to take him, after that first meeting! You were spot on when you stated that Rod was always “a straight up tell it like it is, type of guy.”
I soon realized what a character that he was, and it took me a long while to figure out that the teasing that he dished out my way, was only because he Loved Me!!
Rod was my Father-In-Law for over 40 years, and He Truly Had a Heart Of Gold!!
Thanks sooo much for your post!!
With Love, All of The Duley Family
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Rod, I am so sorry for your loss. We have all had too many tragedies in the past couple of years. But we have strength in our families pulling together to hold each other up. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Uncle Buddy was an long time icon in the Rosaryville/Upper Marlboro area. So many knew him, loved him, and have shared very sweet memories of him. A special man, uncle, blood, part of my heart, who was so loved and will be dearly missed. I can see him reunited with his parents and siblings who have entered heaven’s gate before him.
Chief Duly was always a straight up tell it like it is type of guy. He and the other senior leaders of the 113th Supply took me under their wings and truly made me feel welcome and a part of 113th Supply, DC Air National Guard. Rest In Paradise Chief Duly. You will truly be missed by your family and those who had the honor and pleasure of working with you and for you as a part of the DC Air National Guard.
Yvonne D. Miller, Major, Retired, DCANG
Yvonne,
My heart was soooo warmed to read your condolence for our beloved Rodney.
I met Rodney when I was a mere 17 years old, dating his middle son, Dennis. I wasn’t sure how to take him, after that first meeting! You were spot on when you stated that Rod was always “a straight up tell it like it is, type of guy.”
I soon realized what a character that he was, and it took me a long while to figure out that the teasing that he dished out my way, was only because he Loved Me!!
Rod was my Father-In-Law for over 40 years, and He Truly Had a Heart Of Gold!!
Thanks sooo much for your post!!
With Love, All of The Duley Family
Chief Duley was my first supervisor in the DC Air National Guard and became a life long friend that I will miss. My deepest condolences to Sandy and the rest of the family.
Butch,
Thank You on behalf of The Duley Family! I have heard your name over the years, and we are Grateful for your long standing friendship with Rodney! We will All Miss Him!!
PLEASE ACCEPT OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR LOSS.
CHARLES & JUDI DOLAK
Sandy – our hearts go out to you and your family. I know the Chief and Doug are cracking jokes together in heaven and discussing all their “junk” finds. Our deepest condolences.
The Anderson Family