Mary Katherine Frazer
January 19, 1954 – November 25, 2021
It is with great sadness and love that the family of Mary Katherine Frazer announces her passing on November 25, 2021. Surrounded by her husband, Mark, and her loved ones, Mary passed away peacefully at home in North Beach, Maryland.
Mary was born on January 19, 1954 in Sullivan, Missouri to Virginia Sue Harman and Frank Mercer Kirby. She graduated from Bladensburg High School in 1972. Mary began her career as a cosmetologist. She wore many hats along the way as a hairdresser, waitress, caterer, real estate agent and lastly, she worked for many years at Dunkirk Dental Associates. After a 24-year relationship, Mary and Mark Frazer were married in a beautiful ceremony on the Chesapeake Bay in 2016.
Mary was a loving daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, and sister. Her outgoing personality and genuine love of people impacted many. Mary, affectionately referred to as “Kiki” by her grandchildren and many others, lived life to the fullest.
A few of Mary’s favorite things were traveling, golfing, playing cards, and the arts. Mary’s love for travel led her to explore near and far. She enjoyed traveling with Mark and her friends, and frequently traveled out of the country. As a member of the Cannon Club in Lothian, MD for many years, Mary loved the game of golf and joining her friends at the 19th hole. Whether Mary was painting, creating pottery, or enjoying a live performance at the theater, she loved the arts and was proud to be a founding member of Artworks at 7th in North Beach.
Mary will be fondly remembered as an outgoing, loving, and friendly person. Mary’s beautiful smile and infectious laugh made her extra special and couldn’t help but to have a good time while in her presence.
Mary is survived by her loving husband, Mark Frazer; her son, Joseph Mattingly and his wife Shannon, her son, Jeffrey Mattingly and his wife Tina; stepdaughters Suzanne Hardisty and her husband Charles and Linden Re and her husband John; grandchildren, Marley and Lily Mattingly and step-grandchildren Lindy, Kayla, Sean, Rebecca, Michael, Ryan, and Lauren; and step-great-grandson Kasey. She is also survived by her brother, Jim Kirby and his wife Kathy, along with nephew Kevin Kirby.
Family will receive visitors on Thursday, December 2, from 2-4 and 6-8 PM at Rausch Funeral Home, Owings. A celebration of life will be held on Sunday December 5, from 2-5 PM at The Cannon Club in Lothian. Memorial donations in Mary’s name may be made to Calvert Hospice.
Visitation
Thursday, December 2, 2021
2:00 PM – 4:00 PM
&
6:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Services
- Celebration of Life
Sunday, December 5, 2021
2:00 PM – 5:00 PM
The Cannon Club
699 Mt. Zion Marlboro Road
Lothian, MD 20711
Interment
- Private
Contributions
Calvert Hospice
P.O. Box 838
Prince Frederick, MD 20678
410-535-0892
Condolences
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26 Nov 2021
5:26pm
MARK, JOE, JEFF AND FAMILY, OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. MARY WILL BE MISSED BY MANY. HER FRIENDSHIP WILL ALWAYS BE CHERISHED. MAY SHE RIP 🙏. GIL AND HEIDI NELMES
City
Port Richey
State
FL
26 Nov 2021
6:27pm
The world has lost an incredible life. You have our sincere condolences, our deepest sympathies, and our unending love.
Russell & Tiffiany Dunlap
City
Lothian
State
Maryland
26 Nov 2021
10:16pm
Oh Mary, what a loss you are to North Beach…I remember you as a happy, enthusiastic woman, oh the fun we had in the Chesapeake Beach Players. You will always be remembered fondly. 💖 my heart breaks for Mark and the family.
City
Little River,
State
SC
27 Nov 2021
9:01am
I remember Mary’s bright eyes and beautiful smile. May God grant you and your family strength, peace and His gentle comfort in the upcoming days. With prayers, JoAnne and Richard Alù
City
Dunkirk
State
MD
27 Nov 2021
10:47am
Mary will be missed by everyone she met. She was an awesome person and a great friend. I will miss our monthly card playing, as we always had so much fun together. I had the pleasure of knowing Mary since the 80’s when we were on a weekly bowling team for almost 10 years. Those were the days! See you again one day, my friend ❤️
City
Prince Frederick
State
MD
27 Nov 2021
12:33pm
Mary rest in peace dear friend. One of the first people I met in CC. One of your many talents was getting people together. Between bowling, cards and the fun girl trips we will miss you. Life will not be the same without you!
Love you Mary! 💜
My deepest sympathy to Mark Jeff and Joe.💔
City
Huntingtown
State
MD
27 Nov 2021
3:06pm
My condolences to the Frazier family. I was fortunate to of had the opportunity to meet Mary playing golf. She had a great infectious smile and wonderful personality that was very warm and welcoming. She will surely be missed. May the Frazier family and friends heal from their fond memories of Mary and forever be in their hearts.
Sonya Trimbath
City
Aurora
State
Colorado
27 Nov 2021
3:13pm
My deepest sympathies to her entire family
City
Dallas
State
Texas
27 Nov 2021
5:39pm
My sincere condolences to Mark and her entire family , what can I say about Mary that has not already been said. This friendship meant so much to me , yes, get togethers , girls trips , etc will never be the same, but you my friend will never be forgotten. RIP my beautiful friend.” May the road rise up to meet you, May the be always at your back , and until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand”❤️
City
Huntingtown
State
MD
27 Nov 2021
10:26pm
Prayers of love and comfort for your husband and family as they learn to navigate the days ahead. Thank you for sharing your love of pottery with us on our Tuesday night classes at Jesus the Good Shepherd. May you watch over your loved ones and have eternal rest. 🙏🏼❤️
City
Sunderland
State
Maryland
28 Nov 2021
1:13pm
Just want to say how sorry I am for the family’s loss. Mary was a very friendly person. I first met her at the bowling alley where we all bowled. Then my first husband Richard Keefe did Paintng work for her and Mark. Great person. She will be missed. Rest in peace Mary.
City
Lusby
State
Maryland
29 Nov 2021
12:19am
mary was the sweetest person ever. prays to ur family. mark, joe, jeff and her grandchildren lily and marley. she was loved by so many people with her beautiful eyes and smile. we miss you kiki
City
huntingtown
State
maryland
29 Nov 2021
8:25am
Our deepest sympathy and condolences to Dr Mark and family. May Mary rest in peace now and her friends and family all hold dear their memories of her life and happiness they shared with her.
City
Owings
State
MARYLAND
29 Nov 2021
11:03pm
Dear Mark,
May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead. Our most sincere condolences. Abigail and Bill
City
North Beach
State
MD
30 Nov 2021
10:21am
Deepest sympathy to Mark and family..Mary will be remembered by her smile and happiness she shared with others… May God be with you… and all memories of the happiness in your lives.
City
Tampa
State
Flordia
30 Nov 2021
11:21am
Thinking of y’all during this difficult time.
Our condolences to the Frazier family.
The Greenlee Family
City
Lusby
State
MD
1 Dec 2021
9:52pm
Dear Mark and family, so sorry to hear about Mary. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this difficult time. RIP Mary 🙏🏻 Caren Neuland
City
Huntingtown
State
Maryland
2 Dec 2021
4:40pm
Dear Mark, I am so sorry to hear about Mary. She will be remembered as a fun loving and very kind person and our prayers our with you and your family.
Tom and Eileen Cady
City
North beach
State
MD
3 Dec 2021
4:55pm
My love and condolences to Mark and Mary’s families for the loss of Mary. She was a long time ago friend I will always remember fondly. I was happy to know her. and call her my friend. I know she will be greatly missed by all. ♥♥♥
City
Afton
State
VA
4 Dec 2021
8:21pm
I am truly sorry to read of Mary’s passing. My prayers to Mark and all their family and friends. She will be missed.
Carol Lewis
City
Huntingtown
State
Md
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MARK, JOE, JEFF AND FAMILY, OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. MARY WILL BE MISSED BY MANY. HER FRIENDSHIP WILL ALWAYS BE CHERISHED. MAY SHE RIP 🙏. GIL AND HEIDI NELMES
The world has lost an incredible life. You have our sincere condolences, our deepest sympathies, and our unending love.
Russell & Tiffiany Dunlap
Oh Mary, what a loss you are to North Beach…I remember you as a happy, enthusiastic woman, oh the fun we had in the Chesapeake Beach Players. You will always be remembered fondly. 💖 my heart breaks for Mark and the family.
I remember Mary’s bright eyes and beautiful smile. May God grant you and your family strength, peace and His gentle comfort in the upcoming days. With prayers, JoAnne and Richard Alù
Mary will be missed by everyone she met. She was an awesome person and a great friend. I will miss our monthly card playing, as we always had so much fun together. I had the pleasure of knowing Mary since the 80’s when we were on a weekly bowling team for almost 10 years. Those were the days! See you again one day, my friend ❤️
Mary rest in peace dear friend. One of the first people I met in CC. One of your many talents was getting people together. Between bowling, cards and the fun girl trips we will miss you. Life will not be the same without you!
Love you Mary! 💜
My deepest sympathy to Mark Jeff and Joe.💔
My condolences to the Frazier family. I was fortunate to of had the opportunity to meet Mary playing golf. She had a great infectious smile and wonderful personality that was very warm and welcoming. She will surely be missed. May the Frazier family and friends heal from their fond memories of Mary and forever be in their hearts.
Sonya Trimbath
My deepest sympathies to her entire family
My sincere condolences to Mark and her entire family , what can I say about Mary that has not already been said. This friendship meant so much to me , yes, get togethers , girls trips , etc will never be the same, but you my friend will never be forgotten. RIP my beautiful friend.” May the road rise up to meet you, May the be always at your back , and until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand”❤️
Prayers of love and comfort for your husband and family as they learn to navigate the days ahead. Thank you for sharing your love of pottery with us on our Tuesday night classes at Jesus the Good Shepherd. May you watch over your loved ones and have eternal rest. 🙏🏼❤️
Just want to say how sorry I am for the family’s loss. Mary was a very friendly person. I first met her at the bowling alley where we all bowled. Then my first husband Richard Keefe did Paintng work for her and Mark. Great person. She will be missed. Rest in peace Mary.
mary was the sweetest person ever. prays to ur family. mark, joe, jeff and her grandchildren lily and marley. she was loved by so many people with her beautiful eyes and smile. we miss you kiki
Our deepest sympathy and condolences to Dr Mark and family. May Mary rest in peace now and her friends and family all hold dear their memories of her life and happiness they shared with her.
Dear Mark,
May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead. Our most sincere condolences. Abigail and Bill
Deepest sympathy to Mark and family..Mary will be remembered by her smile and happiness she shared with others… May God be with you… and all memories of the happiness in your lives.
Thinking of y’all during this difficult time.
Our condolences to the Frazier family.
The Greenlee Family
Dear Mark and family, so sorry to hear about Mary. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this difficult time. RIP Mary 🙏🏻 Caren Neuland
Dear Mark, I am so sorry to hear about Mary. She will be remembered as a fun loving and very kind person and our prayers our with you and your family.
Tom and Eileen Cady
My love and condolences to Mark and Mary’s families for the loss of Mary. She was a long time ago friend I will always remember fondly. I was happy to know her. and call her my friend. I know she will be greatly missed by all. ♥♥♥
I am truly sorry to read of Mary’s passing. My prayers to Mark and all their family and friends. She will be missed.
Carol Lewis