Helen Lee Phelps
June 16, 1926 – January 1, 2022
Helen Lee Phelps, 95, formerly of Huntingtown, Maryland went home to be with the Lord on January 1, 2022 at The Hermitage in Solomons, Maryland. Helen was born on June 16, 1926 to Alvin and Lillie (Jones) Buckler in her childhood home in Stoakley (Prince Frederick), Maryland. Born the ninth of ten children, Helen spoke often of working on the family farm as well as helping her mom prepare meals for a family of 12 and the farm workers! Helen graduated from Calvert High School. She was proud to know that the school Alma Mater she wrote in high school is still being sung there today. In fact, her great-grandson graduated last year with his class singing the song his great-grandmother had written.
On October 1, 1944, Helen married Lewis Phelps (from Texas) and she quickly went from farm life to Navy wife. Together, Helen and Lewis raised three children: Judith, Tom, and Dotty. Navy life afforded the family opportunities to live in Hawaii, California, Washington State, and Cambridge, Maryland. During Lewis’ many deployments, Helen took on the responsibilities of being a Navy wife. She took care of three children, household finances, and their home, with determination and love.
After 20 years of Navy life, Helen and Lewis decided to retire and make Calvert County their home. Lewis owned a service station and Helen worked for Garner and Duff Florist for many years. Helen also volunteered more than 20 years in her daughter Dotty’s first grade classroom where many children were blessed by her loving attention. Helen loved nothing more than spending time with her grandchildren as they were growing up. When she was later blessed with 12 great-grandchildren, her heart was filled with love for each one. Helen enjoyed cooking and will be remembered by family and friends for her wonderful meals, famous chicken salad, lemon meringue pies, pound cakes, donuts, and Christmas cookies.
Helen was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Lewis Riley Phelps, brothers: Stanley, Gorman, and Thomas, and sisters: Grace Humphreys, Marguerite Gettier, Doris Hall, Lucille Wood, Thelma Trott, and Betty Phelps. She is survived by her daughter Judith Sturgis and husband Ben of Huntingtown, son Tom Phelps and wife Rosemary of Huntingtown, and daughter Dotty Schenk and husband Darryl of Sunderland. She is also survived by five grandchildren: Mary Susan Roorda (Chris), Tom Phelps (Karen), Ben Phelps (Mary), Amy Bevard (Bruce), and Julie Leach (Matt). Helen leaves behind 12 great-grandchildren: Owen, Clara, Andrew, Sara, Caleb, Jacob, Hannah, Anna, Abby, Lily, Lucy, and Thomas.
Helen was a member of Bayside Baptist Church. Loved by all who knew her, Helen will be remembered fondly as a woman who loved and served others with the love of Christ.
Visitation
Services
- Private
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
Interment
- Private
Contributions
Ronald McDonald House Charities of Maryland
1 Aisquith Street
Baltimore, Maryland 21202
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What a beautiful woman! Our path would cross at the home of Rosemary and Tom. It was usually during a celebration of a holiday (cookout). Her and I would chat and talk about all kinds of things. She always would share what she brought and made for the party. I really enjoyed our conversations. She was so loved by many.
Helen was the youngest older person I knew. The last time she came in my office I told her to watch the steps and she practically jumped down them. I was in awe at how great her mind and body were. Such a kind lady. I will truly miss her. A life well lived!
Condolences to Judy, Tommy, Dotty and all your family. Aunt Helen was a blessing to all she knew and loved. When we visited her she would never let you leave without a bag of her famous chocolate chip cookie. Our daughter, Terri, viewed her as a second grandmother and is heartbroken. Every time Terri flew in from Califorina, Aunt Helen was the first on her list to visit. Aunt Helen will be truly missed but we will hold close to our hearts all her wonderful memories.
To the immediate family, I pray for peace and comfort as you mourn. It goes without saying Aunt Helen meant the world to so many people. She seemed to have an endless ability to love combined with an inner light that always seemed to shine so bright. Ever with a warm smile and hug, she’d want you to sit close on the couch and catch her up on everything in your world. She had this unique way of making everyone feel so special, so loved. Will always admire her strength of character, generous spirit, abounding faith, and gentleness with children. Love you, Aunt Helen.
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Tommy, Judy, Dotty & Families,
Sorry to hear of her passing. Such a sweet, kind lady. I would always ask Tommy about her.
May she rest in peace. To the family remember the good times and her smile.
God Bless.
What a beautiful woman! Our path would cross at the home of Rosemary and Tom. It was usually during a celebration of a holiday (cookout). Her and I would chat and talk about all kinds of things. She always would share what she brought and made for the party. I really enjoyed our conversations. She was so loved by many.
Sorry to read this, Helen was a good friend and customer of mine for years. Loved her energy and outgoing personality! Prayers going out to the family! May God Comfort You During this Time Of Loss!
Helen was the youngest older person I knew. The last time she came in my office I told her to watch the steps and she practically jumped down them. I was in awe at how great her mind and body were. Such a kind lady. I will truly miss her. A life well lived!
Condolences to Judy, Tommy, Dotty and all your family. Aunt Helen was a blessing to all she knew and loved. When we visited her she would never let you leave without a bag of her famous chocolate chip cookie. Our daughter, Terri, viewed her as a second grandmother and is heartbroken. Every time Terri flew in from Califorina, Aunt Helen was the first on her list to visit. Aunt Helen will be truly missed but we will hold close to our hearts all her wonderful memories.
She was a very special lady and loved her family very much. She volunteered in her daughter’s classrooms for many years and truly enriched the lives of children. She exemplified the Christian role model! She will be missed…
Sending you all love and prayers. I will always remember great conversation with her and the love that she shared so generously.
Love,
Erin and the Romero family
To the immediate family, I pray for peace and comfort as you mourn. It goes without saying Aunt Helen meant the world to so many people. She seemed to have an endless ability to love combined with an inner light that always seemed to shine so bright. Ever with a warm smile and hug, she’d want you to sit close on the couch and catch her up on everything in your world. She had this unique way of making everyone feel so special, so loved. Will always admire her strength of character, generous spirit, abounding faith, and gentleness with children. Love you, Aunt Helen.
Dotty & family,
So sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. I remember how helpful she was for the children in 1st grade. My youngest benefitted from her help.
My condolences.
Sharon Fulton