Edwin Vincent Gray, Jr.
June 23, 1946 – September 2, 2020

Edwin Vincent Gray Jr, 74, of Lusby, MD, passed away on September 2, 2020 at his home.
Ed was born in Laurel, MD on June 23, 1946, son of the late Edwin Vincent Gray Sr and Geraldine Gray. He is survived by his wife of 46 years, Joy Rene Gray, his six children, Geralenia Reynolds (Jonathan Yodichkas), Kyle Gray, Christina Schiller (Valentine Schiller IV), Vincent Gray (Renee Gray), Michelle Yanko-Young (Dave Young), Jesse Gray (Keri Gray), and nephew Rocky Lasseter (more like a son), his twenty one grandchildren, Johnathan Ford, Joseph Ford Jr, Zachary Ford, Samantha Reynolds, James Reynolds, Abigail Reynolds, Lyndsey Reynolds, Patricia Hayes, Amelia Kuhl (Bobby), Dylan Gray, Valentine Schiller V, Angelina Schiller, Shane Young, Vincent Ryan Gray Jr (Savanah), Anthony Gray, Nicole Gray, Joesph Yanko, Callie Yanko, Austin Yanko, Gabriella Gray and Emmett Gray, his two great-grandchildren Mikayla Ford, Brielle Woomer, and his eight siblings, Donna Gallion, Judy Koslosky, David Gray, Mark Gray, Geralyn Beard, Rick Gray, Patrick Gray, April Gray and many loved nieces and nephews. He was proceeded in death by his brother, James Gray Sr.
After graduating from Western High School in Las Vegas, Nevada in 1964, Ed joined the Marine Corps, proudly serving our country on the front lines of the Vietnam War. He worked almost every job at one time or another, spending a good portion of his working life in the autobody industry as a body shop manager. He was a member of the VFW, American Legion, DAV and NRA.
Ed was always incredibly caring, loving, selfless and self-sacrificing. His favorite pastime was spending time with his family, especially playing with his grandkids and great grand kids. He also loved teaching family and friends how to do everything from chopping wood, tying a fishing knot, playing golf, shooting a bow and arrow or gun, bowling, playing baseball, doing yardwork, gardening and the importance of hard work and diligence. He taught us by example with a great work ethic. He loved to give to others. You could be sure if he knew what you liked, he was going to collect it and give you more than you ever need. He would also give you advice, whether you wanted it or not. He loved giving people a hard time (including random people who didn’t always know how to take him)! He was the biggest practical jokester, pulling pranks on everyone he could. He had a sense of humor like no other. He loved helping others. He would give you the shirt off his back, even if you didn’t need it. He was a proud Marine, avid Trump supporter (MAGA) and proud to be an American!
Some of his hobbies were hunting, fishing, crafts, models, woodworking and fixing anything that needed to be fixed. He loved taking family trips to theme parks, especially Disney, playing Bingo, and shopping, whether it was yard sales, flea markets, grocery stores, department stores or his new favorite, online, really anywhere that would sell him anything. He really enjoyed working in the yard and spending time in the great outdoors. His favorite thing to do was anything that involved spending time with family, whether it was rooting for the Redskins, FFDs, holiday get togethers, or raking leaves in the yard (on Thanksgiving). Oh, did we mention all the road trips. He couldn’t get enough! Second star to the right and straight on till theme park, DC, Baltimore Inner Harbor, California, the mountains, the lake, or wherever his heart desired!
He was loved by many. He will be missed.
A memorial service will be held at 1pm, Sunday September 6, 2020. The gathering will start at 12:30 at Rausch Funeral Home, 20 American Lane, Lusby, MD 20657.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in memory of Edwin V. Gray Jr. to the Wounded Warriors Project at www.woundedwarriorproject.org, his favorite charity that he donated to monthly.
Visitation
Services
- Life Celebration Service
Sunday, September 6, 2020
1:00 PM
Interment
- Private
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Ed, I will forever miss your teasing and giving ways. But most of all I will miss seeing the love you have for your wife, your kids and all your grandchildren, you were an amazing man and will be missed greatly! Thank you for your service to your country and for sharing your life with my sweet sister Joy. I love amd miss you. My heart will be there with all of you at his service. Prayers of comfort as he joins his parents and ours. I love you all. Linda and Mike Hoxie
Uncle Ed. Thank you for your constant love. I’ve often shared stories with my own kids about receiving your famous sugar cookies at Christmas time. Your immense love of all things outdoors made a huge impact on me. I wish you could have met my husband and kids.
I will be lifting you up in prayer Aunt Joy and cousins. My heart aches that I can’t be there to hug you in person.
A SLOW SALUTE – TO A FELLOW MARINE
THANK YOU – FOR YOUR SERVICE TO OUR COUNTRY.
You are one of our heroes. We will remember you always and miss you dearly.
Take your Warrior’s rest for a duty well done.
I wish to extend to members of your family my deepest sympathy on their loss. May the force of GOD be with them as they walk through this difficult time. May the loving promises of our LORD and Savior comfort them and give them peace.
As a grateful Veteran, I leave my sympathy and hope you accept this as a small token of appreciation for the honorable and faithful service rendered by your loved one to our Country.
SEMPER FI
U. S. MARINE AND VIETNAM VET
We are so sorry for your loss. Sending our love, thoughts, and prayers for you all. We will remember Ed’s wonderful personality and sense of humor and will miss him. He loved his family so well. He did much for our country and for many people, and we are thankful. We love you!
Fred, Kathy and John Horn.
So sorry for the families loss. I still can;t believe you are gone. You will be missed so much by your family and friends. Your memories will live on through them. Now your pain is gone, rest in peace Eddie. Prayers going out to you and your loved ones.
Dear Joy and the entire Gray Family,
Sending prayers to carry you, hugs to sustain you and love to light the way. We are forever a part of your extended family through your selfless caring of others. I remember Ed as a bear of a man with an impish glimmer in his eyes and a big, welcoming smile.
Love,
Ginny Roth (nee McCready)
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Ed, I will forever miss your teasing and giving ways. But most of all I will miss seeing the love you have for your wife, your kids and all your grandchildren, you were an amazing man and will be missed greatly! Thank you for your service to your country and for sharing your life with my sweet sister Joy. I love amd miss you. My heart will be there with all of you at his service. Prayers of comfort as he joins his parents and ours. I love you all. Linda and Mike Hoxie
Uncle Ed. Thank you for your constant love. I’ve often shared stories with my own kids about receiving your famous sugar cookies at Christmas time. Your immense love of all things outdoors made a huge impact on me. I wish you could have met my husband and kids.
I will be lifting you up in prayer Aunt Joy and cousins. My heart aches that I can’t be there to hug you in person.
Geri, Sorry I didn’t get to know your father, he sounds like a great man with good qualities hard to find. Prayers to you and your wonderful Big family❤️
So very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May the peace of God enfold you now and in the days ahead.
Ruth Dixon (E.J.’s mom)
We were saddened to hear of Edwin’s passing. He will be missed by all he served with and all who knew him. Rest in Peace Brother! Semper Fi… Vinnie Burdziuk, 2/1 Webmaster
A SLOW SALUTE – TO A FELLOW MARINE
THANK YOU – FOR YOUR SERVICE TO OUR COUNTRY.
You are one of our heroes. We will remember you always and miss you dearly.
Take your Warrior’s rest for a duty well done.
I wish to extend to members of your family my deepest sympathy on their loss. May the force of GOD be with them as they walk through this difficult time. May the loving promises of our LORD and Savior comfort them and give them peace.
As a grateful Veteran, I leave my sympathy and hope you accept this as a small token of appreciation for the honorable and faithful service rendered by your loved one to our Country.
SEMPER FI
U. S. MARINE AND VIETNAM VET
So sorry for you and your loss. Prayers for healing and comfort during this tradition time in life! Love you and please be safe in your travels!
We are so sorry for your loss. Sending our love, thoughts, and prayers for you all. We will remember Ed’s wonderful personality and sense of humor and will miss him. He loved his family so well. He did much for our country and for many people, and we are thankful. We love you!
Fred, Kathy and John Horn.
So sorry for the families loss. I still can;t believe you are gone. You will be missed so much by your family and friends. Your memories will live on through them. Now your pain is gone, rest in peace Eddie. Prayers going out to you and your loved ones.
Dear Joy and the entire Gray Family,
Sending prayers to carry you, hugs to sustain you and love to light the way. We are forever a part of your extended family through your selfless caring of others. I remember Ed as a bear of a man with an impish glimmer in his eyes and a big, welcoming smile.
Love,
Ginny Roth (nee McCready)
We were so sorry to hear about your dad, Christina, Jesse, Michelle, Geri, Vincent and Kyle. Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Love, the Webb family