David Grady Whitten, who was born October 17, 1947, in Erie, PA, made the transition on Saturday, June 6, 2020, at the University of MD hospital in Baltimore. He suffered complications following surgery. Dave was preceded in death by his parents, J. Grady & Freda E. Whitten, and his mother-in-law, Doris Zanelotti. Dave lived in North Beach with the love of his life, Teresa A. Zanelotti-Whitten, and his German Shepherd, Woozy the 5th (…long story). He has left behind many friends and relatives, specifically his only sibling, little sister Beth Swoap and her husband John, his children of whom he was so proud: Tonya Boileau and spouse Randy, Mike Whitten and spouse Amy Shackelford, the lovely and talented Megan Whitten, his artist, and Denise Wayson. Dave also had 8 grandchildren whom he adored and to whom he was Pop-Pop. Jessica & Jared Boileau, Emza & Brynnah Shackelford-Whitten, Devon, Caroline, Garrett & Preston Wayson. Dave is also survived by his extended family, Joe Zanelotti, his buddy and father-in-law, Joe Zanelotti, Jr & spouse Sandy, Joyce Hartman, Jimmy Zanelotti and spouse Mary, Joanie Zanelotti-Cook and spouse Buddy Cook. There are also many nieces, nephews and great nieces and great nephews left to miss Uncle Dave.
Dave went to school and graduated in 1965 from Harbor Creek High School in Harbor Creek, PA. He then went to Indiana State College(later Indiana University of PA), where he was a member of Kappa Delta Rho fraternity, where he made some of his longest and most dear friendships. He graduated with a degree in Land Planning. He went to American University for his graduate work. In 1971 he moved to Maryland, where he began his career as a planner at Tri-County Council, and then moved into the real estate industry. He spent his career working in various facets of real estate as a developer, builder and certified appraiser.
Dave played multiple sports while in school, loved football, fishing, boating, diving and his most recent passion was camping. He always enjoyed music, reading, loved a good meal, especially Teresa’s many pasta dishes. He loved to travel. Dave was always a good and generous friend, sometimes generous to a fault.
After marrying Teresa, Dave found a strong faith and was a member of St Anthony’s Catholic Church in North Beach.
We will all miss you terribly. So Dave, who am I going to aggravate, now?
Please be aware that attendees at David’s visitation and Memorial Mass at St. Anthony’s Church are required to wear a mask, and appropriate physical distancing reqirements must be adhered to.
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Mac
June 11 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
James A. McAnulty, Harborcreek High School, Class of 1965
Dave we will miss you. Go and help our lord prepare a place for the rest of us. May God bless and comfort your family.
Shannon & Finley Laws
June 10 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
We are so very sorry, Teresa. I can’t imagine what you and the rest of the family are going through right now. Our deepest condolences and love to you and everyone that is dealing with this huge loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May he rest in peace.
Linda Beam
June 10 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
Dearest Teresa and family,
I have no words to describe my hurtful heart. You and Dave have always been a couple to Love and admire. What I remember most was Dave’s big smiling face when you and he were together. He never stopped grinning because you were his shining light. He was a man with a generous heart and he was a darn good Appraisor which is how we met. When my Chris passed Terri, I will never forget your kind words. I love you and I’m sending prayers for a peaceful heart. Linda Beam
Cindy Trieschman King
June 9 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
Teresa I was shocked to hear of Dave’s passing. I am so very sorry. I know your heart is broken. He was a great man…always smiling. You were blessed to have such a beautiful love. I am so sorry! My thoughts & prayers are with you xo ((HUGS))
Tina Cirillo
June 9 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
Teresa, I’m so sad to hear of Dave’s passing and heartbroken for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time. May his memory be eternal. God bless you.
Ginger Walls
June 9 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
Teresa,
Mike and I were so sorry to hear about Dave’s passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there’s anything else we can do to support you.
Love and prayers,
Ginger and Mike
Joyce Alexander
June 9 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
Terri my heart breaks for you. Praying for Gods comfort and peace for you and your family . Love you girl.❤️????
Beverly Oliver
June 9 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
Teresa,
You and Dave’s family have my deepest sympathy. It was obvious from all the Facebook pictures of you and Dave that you loved each other and cared about family. It was good to see you two at our reunion in 2015. Be well, be strong Teresa. God bless you.
Sincerely,
Beverly Oliver, La Reine High School Class of 1975
Theresa Shultz
June 9 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
I am shocked to hear this. I met Dave and Theresa and Freda years ago and was very fond of the family. Sad to hearTheresa. You are lucky to be surrounded by so many family members and friends. This will be quite a comfort at this time. You and Dave are in my thoughts and prayers.
charles becker
June 9 – Obituary: David Grady Whitten
So sorry to hear Teresa. Mike Tuttle introduced us back in the 1970’s and we have been friends every since. May Dave rest in Peace.
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