Pamela Jane Whitlow
July 2, 1955 – September 30, 2022
Pamela Jane Whitlow, 67, of Rose Haven passed away on Friday, September 30, 2022, surrounded by family. Pamela was born July 2, 1955, in Charleston, South Carolina, to William Edward and Mary Jane (Brown) Cochran. Pamela was raised in a military family that traveled to and made their home in places around the globe, including California, Hawaii, New York, South Carolina, and Iran before settling in Maryland. Pamela served as an Officer for the United States Capitol Police Department for 24 years and in 2003 opened The Magnolia Shoppe, a home décor and gift shop in Friendship. Pamela’s family was her pride and joy; a doting mother and wife, she prioritized family above all else. Pamela was a woman of deep faith who lived her life dedicated to the Lord.  Pamela exuded a love that was unmatched, was a friend to all, and anyone who met her can attest to the special, caring, and devoted person she was. In her spare time, Pamela enjoyed gardening, sewing, and traveling the world, but most of all she treasured spending time with her family. Pamela was a well-loved and respected member of her family and community who will be deeply missed and fondly remembered.
Pamela is survived by her husband, Bruce Whitlow; children Jennifer Campbell (Bryan) of Lothian and Heather Crowley of Rose Haven; grandchildren Rory Campbell and Alice Campbell; siblings Janet Farrell (Jack), William Cochran (Stephanie), and John Cochran (Cindy); and many nieces, nephews, and dear friends.
In lieu of flowers donations in Pamela’s name may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital at the address and link below.
Visitation
Wednesday, October 5, 2022
4:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Services
- Funeral Service
Thursday, October 6, 2022
11:00 AM
Calvert Grace Community Church
9870 Old Solomons Island Road
Owings, MD 20736
Contributions
St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital
501 St. Jude Place
Memphis, TN 38105
Condolences
Sort Comments
2 Oct 2022
9:01am
Pam will be sorely missed by all who knew her, such a lovely person.
City
Rose Haven
State
MD
2 Oct 2022
9:07am
So very sorry to hear this. I had the privilege of working with Pam at the Capitol Division. She was a wonderful person and beautiful soul. May she Rest In Peace.
City
Annapolis
State
MD
2 Oct 2022
10:23am
You are the apple of my eye, the love of my life and my right hand.
City
Rose Haven
State
MD
2 Oct 2022
1:55pm
Bruce you have my sincerest sympathies. I’m stunned
Hope to see you Wednesday evening . Take care my friend
City
Chesapeake Beach
State
Maryland
2 Oct 2022
9:33pm
I am so sorry for your loss, Bruce. She sounded like a lovely lady. It is hard when you lose your mate.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and family.
Joyce Whitlow Lawson
City
Dickson
State
TN
4 Oct 2022
1:20pm
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Pam was a wonderful woman. Condolences to you and your family,
City
Denton
State
MD
2 Oct 2022
11:41am
So sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. I enjoyed Pam’s friendship when we worked together My prayers are with her family
City
Stafford
State
VA
2 Oct 2022
12:05pm
Debbie and I are very sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. Working with Pam at the USCP was always a delight. Please know that Pam and her family are in our thoughts and prayers. May eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May the souls of all the faithfully departed Rest In Peace.
City
Centreville
State
VA
2 Oct 2022
12:07pm
Pam was such a kind warm hearted soul. It was such an honor to have had her as my Best Friend … I will miss her dearly. May Pam rest in Peace.
City
OWINGS
State
Maryland
2 Oct 2022
12:17pm
My thoughts are with your family. I’m so sorry for your loss. She was a very kind person and will be missed.
City
Harwood
State
MD
2 Oct 2022
2:15pm
We are so very sorry to hear about your wife. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your and your family. May God grant you all peace and wrap his arms around you in the days ahead.
City
Crownsville
State
Maryland
2 Oct 2022
3:22pm
Bruce, I am so sorry to hear about your loss as I know how much you loved Pamela. As one of my best friends, I can’t help but feel your pain and I am always here for whatever I can do. God Bless
City
Glen Burnie
State
Md.
2 Oct 2022
3:36pm
So sorry to hear about Pam. She will be sorely missed by everyone who has ever met her. She was an angel on earth. She fought a good fight, but God had other plans for her. May God bless her soul and be there to comfort her entire family.
City
Laurel
State
MD
2 Oct 2022
4:55pm
Bruce and family, Kelly and I are so sorry to learn of the passing of Pam. She was such a caring and loving lady. We are lifting you all up in prayers, praying our God will wrap His blanket of comfort around you all in the days and weeks ahead. Cherish those fond memories that will forever live in your hearts.
City
Rose Haven
State
Maryland
2 Oct 2022
7:13pm
It was such an honor to have known Pam. She was truly an Angel here on earth. My condolences to you and all of your family. I will keep you all in my prayers. She will truly be missed.
City
Chesapeake Beach
State
Maryland
2 Oct 2022
9:14pm
Uncle Bruce,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I will pray for your family! I love you and miss you. God bless!
City
California
State
MD
2 Oct 2022
10:20pm
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Pam. May God comfort the family and friends during this time..
City
Dunkirk
State
Md
3 Oct 2022
12:17pm
Our prayers are with all Pam’s family and friends. God bless you and bring you comfort and peace. Your extended family is thinking of you and sending all our love and support. Love, Sharon, Jennifer, Suzanne and Linda Jo, the Brown Family
City
Roanoke
State
VA
3 Oct 2022
12:33pm
Heather and Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers and may you find comfort in knowing that your Mom is home with the Lord.
City
Bedford
State
NH
3 Oct 2022
4:57pm
Bruce, Rob and I were so sad to hear of Pam’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and family. Pam was a great lady, a good friend, a fine officer and it was my honor and pleasure to have known and worked with her on the United States Capitol Police Department from the time she started. We are so sorry.
City
Ridgely
State
Maryland
3 Oct 2022
5:59pm
Dear Bruce,
I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. I never had the opportunity to meet her, but she sounds like a beautiful lady with many friends and Colleagues, who speak so highly of her. I met you while I visited the Magnolia Shoppe. You spoke so lovingly about her. Ever since we spoke, I have often thought of her, as well as prayed to God to comfort her and give her strength and courage. May God wrap his Glorious arms around her, as well as the entire family and friends that will be going through this most difficult time. May She Rest in Peace.
City
Rose Haven
State
Maryland
3 Oct 2022
8:42pm
Bruce, Jennifer, Heather, Janet, William, John and family’s. I’m sad to hear of the loss of cousin Pam. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. My Pam rest in heaven’s glory.
City
Radford
State
Va
4 Oct 2022
9:58am
There are moments, when time stops. When our daily rush disappears and we see, what is the most important. We will all miss the time spent with so special people like Pamela.
Heather and Family – loved people do never pass away. They always stay in our hearts and minds.
City
Wrocław
State
Poland
4 Oct 2022
11:42am
I am so sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. We were in the same academy class and worked together at the Capitol. She was such a genuinely nice person and will be missed by all who knew her. My heartfelt condolences to Bruce, her family and friends. May God watch over you all.
City
Pasadena
State
MD
5 Oct 2022
10:32am
Pam blessed so many people with her kindness, beautiful smile and courage. Praying that you’ll find comfort in your memories of her and in the knowledge that others are missing her, too. May she rest in eternal peace.
City
Rose Haven
State
MD
6 Oct 2022
5:33am
With deepest sympathy I’m Sending my condolences and prayers. To know Pam was to know what an Angel is like in human form. She will be missed dearly. Sending prayers that everyone can find healing, peace, and comfort.
City
Friendship
State
Md
Sort Comments
Pam will be sorely missed by all who knew her, such a lovely person.
So very sorry to hear this. I had the privilege of working with Pam at the Capitol Division. She was a wonderful person and beautiful soul. May she Rest In Peace.
You are the apple of my eye, the love of my life and my right hand.
Bruce you have my sincerest sympathies. I’m stunned
Hope to see you Wednesday evening . Take care my friend
I am so sorry for your loss, Bruce. She sounded like a lovely lady. It is hard when you lose your mate.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and family.
Joyce Whitlow Lawson
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Pam was a wonderful woman. Condolences to you and your family,
So sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. I enjoyed Pam’s friendship when we worked together My prayers are with her family
Debbie and I are very sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. Working with Pam at the USCP was always a delight. Please know that Pam and her family are in our thoughts and prayers. May eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May the souls of all the faithfully departed Rest In Peace.
Pam was such a kind warm hearted soul. It was such an honor to have had her as my Best Friend … I will miss her dearly. May Pam rest in Peace.
My thoughts are with your family. I’m so sorry for your loss. She was a very kind person and will be missed.
We are so very sorry to hear about your wife. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your and your family. May God grant you all peace and wrap his arms around you in the days ahead.
Bruce, I am so sorry to hear about your loss as I know how much you loved Pamela. As one of my best friends, I can’t help but feel your pain and I am always here for whatever I can do. God Bless
So sorry to hear about Pam. She will be sorely missed by everyone who has ever met her. She was an angel on earth. She fought a good fight, but God had other plans for her. May God bless her soul and be there to comfort her entire family.
Bruce and family, Kelly and I are so sorry to learn of the passing of Pam. She was such a caring and loving lady. We are lifting you all up in prayers, praying our God will wrap His blanket of comfort around you all in the days and weeks ahead. Cherish those fond memories that will forever live in your hearts.
It was such an honor to have known Pam. She was truly an Angel here on earth. My condolences to you and all of your family. I will keep you all in my prayers. She will truly be missed.
Uncle Bruce,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I will pray for your family! I love you and miss you. God bless!
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Pam. May God comfort the family and friends during this time..
Our prayers are with all Pam’s family and friends. God bless you and bring you comfort and peace. Your extended family is thinking of you and sending all our love and support. Love, Sharon, Jennifer, Suzanne and Linda Jo, the Brown Family
Heather and Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers and may you find comfort in knowing that your Mom is home with the Lord.
Bruce, Rob and I were so sad to hear of Pam’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and family. Pam was a great lady, a good friend, a fine officer and it was my honor and pleasure to have known and worked with her on the United States Capitol Police Department from the time she started. We are so sorry.
Dear Bruce,
I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. I never had the opportunity to meet her, but she sounds like a beautiful lady with many friends and Colleagues, who speak so highly of her. I met you while I visited the Magnolia Shoppe. You spoke so lovingly about her. Ever since we spoke, I have often thought of her, as well as prayed to God to comfort her and give her strength and courage. May God wrap his Glorious arms around her, as well as the entire family and friends that will be going through this most difficult time. May She Rest in Peace.
Bruce, Jennifer, Heather, Janet, William, John and family’s. I’m sad to hear of the loss of cousin Pam. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. My Pam rest in heaven’s glory.
There are moments, when time stops. When our daily rush disappears and we see, what is the most important. We will all miss the time spent with so special people like Pamela.
Heather and Family – loved people do never pass away. They always stay in our hearts and minds.
I am so sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. We were in the same academy class and worked together at the Capitol. She was such a genuinely nice person and will be missed by all who knew her. My heartfelt condolences to Bruce, her family and friends. May God watch over you all.
Pam blessed so many people with her kindness, beautiful smile and courage. Praying that you’ll find comfort in your memories of her and in the knowledge that others are missing her, too. May she rest in eternal peace.
With deepest sympathy I’m Sending my condolences and prayers. To know Pam was to know what an Angel is like in human form. She will be missed dearly. Sending prayers that everyone can find healing, peace, and comfort.